Self Faith

Has anyone ever said to you, “Have Faith . . . “?

“Have faith, you will see this through.”

“Have faith, you can do anything you put your mind too.”

“Have faith, you are doing a great job!”

Faith: a belief, confidence or trust in a person, object, religion, idea or view despite the absence of truth. Synonyms:  hope, trust, belief

 

Now that we have the definition out of the way. I would like to talk about self faith. The faith someone has in themselves. There are many people who have faith in themselves, but if you are anything like me; having faith in yourself can come as a challenge.

Now don’t get me wrong, I have faith in many things: my family and friends to always be there for me when I need them; my children to make good choices, to grow and to learn; my electronics (such as phone and computer) to provide information and communication, my home and car to provide shelter and transportation; games/movies/attractions to provide entertainment, but the faith I have in myself . . . Not quite where I would like it to be.

I believe having faith in oneself can be one of the most challenging things to overcome. You have many people who have faith in you, but you will never accomplish what you want accomplished if you do not have faith in yourself. There are so many small things you have faith in, such as getting up every morning to go to school or work, being there for a friend or family member, or having faith in someone you truly trust, but the bigger things like public speaking, starting something new or just getting your voice heard. There is always this fear that something will somehow backfire, people won’t look at you the same, or you feel people will think you are less than you are and really. . . who wants that to happen? So most of the time we just don’t do what we’ve been dying to do. We don’t jump and believe God will guide us. Yes, the road may be rocky and you may get hurt, you may become tired and weary, you may think about giving up, but when you finally reach that pivotal point in your journey, you will be changed. Changed for the better!

I believe motivation and determination are closely linked to faith. Motivation and determination can be a driving force for your faith. Some use motivation to create a backdrop for faith, I guess you could say. Some use a scrapbook of motivational pictures or objects that they look at each day to stay focused, keep their faith in themselves to accomplish what they set out to do. Some read a inspirational book, blogs, add pins or watch movies, and for some it take the desire to help others to have faith in themselves to start. This is what this blog is to me. I want to encourage and inspire others to have faith and to keep fighting for what they believe in, their hopes and their dreams. To continue that journey and see it to the end, to jump and land safely. You may have battle scars, but you will never forget your journey and what it took to achieve what you did. Never stop fighting for that.

I encourage you, if you are anything like me, find something – anything that will assist in keeping your faith and fight for your dreams. What you find may surprise you!

It has been two years since I have written this post and I have come a long way in my Journey. There have definitely been some ups and downs. I’ve been in a car accident, gone through physical therapy for my back, started writing novels and have one published with two more to be published at the end of this month. We have been force to give up our malamute/husky due to unfortunate circumstances (one of which I am still struggling with, her absence has been a struggle). We adopted three more cats to help our two children cope with the loss of having to give up our family dog and I have been committed to continuing with this blog. With the support and the continued faith in my abilities I am forging ahead. I have jumped and am still falling, but our goals are not to far away. I am still fighting for my achievements. Are you?

What motivations or helpful aids do you have to Have Faith, to Keep Fighting… to jump?

Where Am I Headed?

With June beginning, it’s time to begin contemplating of my next project. My series is underway with the second book coming out at the end of this month along with a stand alone novel. So what is next for me? Where do I go now?

Well, continue my series of course! The next in this 7-8 book series (who knows there could be more) is the story of Jasmine. One of the additional five women held captive by Dr. Simonson alongside Blessing. So where is she? What type of affect did his experiments have on her? How is she dealing with her return to society? Well, you will have to wait and read her story. 🙂

I can however give you a glimpse of her background:

Jasmine grew up with three sisters and two brothers who always told each other everything. They made a pact to always be there for each other in whatever life threw at them. But with Jasmine’s rescue her family shunned her as a freak and abomination, not able to understand or deal with what she was becoming. They no longer welcomed her into their homes or their lives. She is now in hiding and refuses to show herself to anyone, keeping to the shadows and taking what she needs from unsuspecting passersby. Without the connection of her once tight knit family, she knows not how to handle what is happening to her inside, out, or her exile.

Want to read more? Good!

Keep an eye out for Jasmine due at the end of September! For now you can catch Raylynn’s Story (Book 1) free on most retailers and Blessing due to publication on June 30th!

There is not greater journey than the imagination of an author creates for their readers. Have fun reading the Conquer E.S. Series and let me know what you think! I would love to hear from you!

21 Ways to Beat Writer’s Block

You never know where or when inspiration can strike, but when it doesn’t you feel as though you have lost all hope of finishing that novel you were so encouraged, excited and enthusiastically forging on to create until you hit that snag. Now you are stuck and you feel like nothing you do will inspire, encourage, influence you to continue that journey. Your characters are forever locked in limbo as you try your hardest to figure out where they are supposed to go from here.

Try these 21 ways to beat writer’s block for forge on over the mountain!

Pinterest

If you are having trouble with your writing. Try looking on Pinterest! This platform has a wealth of images as well as writing prompts to keep your imagination flowing on the journey. Take a look at my boards for some inspiration or create a search of your own!

Vision Board

This is something I would like to do at some point. It can be done with a bulletin board or on the computer. Collect pictures, quotes, notes, etc for your story to keep the plot, characters, setting, etc in your mind as well as in your eye view. I guess I have done this on Pinterest, but not on an actual bulletin board!

Nature/Trip

Sometimes it’s good to clear your mind to create a new rush of inspiration. Walk through nature, just take a walk or go on a trip to clear your mind, or possibly find more inspiration if your story has scenes in the woods or travel to a similar local to your settings. What better way to get ideas for your setting than going out and experiencing it for yourself!

Family and Friends

This may seem like a stretch depending on whether your friends and family support your writing or… think you are crazy. Go ahead and put your idea by them and see what they are willing to give you as to ideas and thoughts. If they are total against helping you, go ahead and use them as a character in your next novel. 😉 You will have a live person to take characteristics from and you already know quite well.

Others

Perhaps there are others that support you, friends, a teacher, mentor or even your children. See if they can give you some thoughts on where you are stuck, ideas, conflict and more. Create a party out of it and have each person give their favorite character, setting, theme, etc. You never know what will come out of all that information!

Dreams

If you are like me, you will have plenty of inspiration for stories provided by the dreams you have while sleeping (or even while you are awake). I may not use all parts of my dreams, but I have and will use sections of them. I now keep a journal next to my bed so I can write them down when I wake up. I will refer to it when I need inspiration, a character, setting, conflict or any other part of the story I’m in need of inspiration.

Read (Books in Genre/Books on Genre)

Reading as well can give you ideas, thoughts and inspiration. Read similar books in your genre or even book on your genre. Something in your reading could spark your imagination to create the perfect story!

Music

I usually have music playing as I write. Whether it’s Christian Contemporary, Country or Disney (My kids love that station on Pandora) something could catch your attention to use in your story.

Listen to Your Characters

I have heard that your characters can dictate where and how your story plays out. I for one totally believe this to be true. In my latest book, “Raylynn” I originally started out with my main character as a secretary for a large company, but as I continued writing, it turned out she wanted to be a nurse so that’s what I stuck with.

Change of Environment/Scenery

Like with Nature/Trip above, sometimes a change of scenery or atmosphere is all it takes to renew your creativity. Go to a park and watch parents and their children as you write, a coffee shop/cafe and people watch, sit in an arboretum and listen to nature, or just go into a different room in your house. Even the slightest change can create a massive flow of inspiration!

Brainstorm

Sit and brainstorm different ideas for the part you are stuck in. Creating a list of ideas can sometimes flesh out new ideas and creative plot twists. Keep the list around and on-going for all your projects. They may come in very handy!

Inspiring Quotes or Pics

I keep boards on Pinterest for Inspiring quotes and pictures for the genre that I write. I also have different boards for different stories that I am writing and that I plan to write so that I can refer back to them as needed. Take a look here!

Play a Game

Playing a game could create a whole new creative situation for your characters and theme of  your story. Plot twist anyone?! Clue and Shadows Over Camelot are two of my favorite. I love fantasy and Sherlock Holmes. One story I am writing is a young girl. Her job as a private investigator leads her on a journey to reclaim what is hers, but she also has a secret that may ruin everything. Keep your eyes open for “Summer Storm” (Title is still in the works, I’ll update as it becomes finalized.)

Keep a Journal

As with your dreams, try keeping a journal to write down your thoughts, any thoughts. Thoughts about your day, what you are working on, how things are going, your dreams, everything. Any and all information can be useful when writing if you use it to further the journey of your characters and story.

Change Writing Materials

Every once in a while it may become useful to change your writing materials. Change from your computer/tablet to pen and paper. It may come in handy for your thoughts as well as your eyes to take a break from the electronics.

Change The Time of Day

Change the time of day that you write. I recently changed from writing in the morning to writing in the evening due to scheduling issues, but I realized that I do much better in the mornings. So I will be re-organizing my schedule to compensate and will stick with the morning hours.

Change Scene You are Writing

Don’t feel that you need to write from one scene/chapter to the next. Try moving around your story and writing what you find interesting that day. Just remember to keep some sort of organization to your writing so you know where that scene is supposed to go. Programs like Scrivener and ywriter are great for this.

Re-read Favorite Book/Story/Scene

Re-reading your favorite book, story, or scene can create imagination to flow like crazy. Try to relate the scene to your own story: How could it fit in? Could you use the idea as a plot twist? The setting? Ask yourself ‘what if’ questions to create a flow of prompts and choose the best one!

Use Reward and Create a Challenge

Think of a reward, a good one and create a challenge/goal for yourself. Nothing gets your creative juices flowing like a good challenge/goal. Once you meet the challenge/goal allow yourself to receive the reward. No cheating now! Get the challenge/goal complete and receive your reward!

Attend a Function Related to Your Work

I love fantasy and romance. One of my favorite places to go is our local Renaissance Faire. There is nothing better than seeing your imagination come to life to create ideas and the flow of creativity!

Keep Your Energy Up (Healthy, Exercise, Water, Sleep)

Just as the title recommends: keep up your energy and do it the right way. I’m not saying cut out ALL the junk. I am a dark chocolate lover after all, but try to create a routine to stay healthy, motivated and active. I started a routine of writing in my journal, exercising and working on my stories every morning and even my husband saw a change in me. Don’t forget to drink plenty of water and get plenty of rest. Grogginess does not help the creativity flow!

Keep journeying on and do what is best for you. How do you beat writer’s block? Comment below to keep the list going!

Writing Distractions and How to Overcome Them

There is nothing worse than sitting down to write, having everything ready; your notes, inspiration, tools and energy, to hear a notification go off or the dreaded “Mom” shouted from the next room. Distractions are part of a writer/author’s life. How we handle them and overcome them can make all the difference in having a successful writing session or not.

Today I have compiled some distractions you may or may not deal with as you sit to write your next big story and how to overcome them.  Let’s get started, shall we…

Comparing Yourself to Others

Distraction:

You remember sitting on the couch, relaxing, reading a novel by your favorite author who has created a stunningly amazing story with great characters, beautifully crafted settings and an amazing plot the night before. Now your mind gets in the way by telling you, “I will never be as great as this author no matter how hard I try.”

Overcome:

You, my dear writer/author are an amazing person to have come as far as you have. Whether you are published or just starting, you have already overcome the biggest hurdle in writing: Beginning. You have begun and that in itself is an amazing feat. As long as you keep to your journey nothing can stop you. Find encouragement from others. Check out my Pinterest board for some awesome quotes. (I also post these on all my social media every Sunday to inspire others. 🙂 ) Collect inspiring and encouraging phrases on Pinterest or in a journal to look at as needed or every day before you begin. Join a writing group and communicate with others how they handle this distraction or any others on this list for that matter. I guess the main idea here is: Find encouragement!

Feeling Sorry for Yourself

Distraction:

You haven’t reached your goal this week/month/year or your story didn’t turn out exactly like you had planned. Now you are having a pity party.

Overcome:

Know that you are not alone in this. Every writer/author encounters setbacks, but it’s climbing over those mountains and continuing on the journey that sets us apart from the rest of the crowd.

Ex. I almost forgot about this weeks planned post even though I have a reminder in my calendar for it. I have been too preoccupied with a different distraction to realize I may fall behind. My choice was to either work harder against my distraction to get it done or submit a late entry. The later didn’t sit well with me so I worked to complete it.
Ex. My recently published book “Raylynn“, I originally planned for her to be a secretary for a large office, but she decided she didn’t want that and became a nurse instead. I totally believe characters will sometimes control the story, which in this case, she certainly did.

Family and Friends

Distraction:

Boy is this one a daily occurrence with me. With pets and two younger children literally running around the dining room table for fun while laughing can be a major distraction. Don’t get me wrong it’s a wonderful sound since my two, like many other children, don’t always get along. So how do you keep the little monsters busy while you get some much needed writing done? How about your spouse or other relatives and friends needing attention?

Overcome:

Pawn the wee ones off on your significant other! OR…, you could schedule reading time while you write to hone their reading skills, put on their favorite movie with a snack, let them have their hour of electronics to play a game, or take them to the park and find inspiration along the way to keep you writing.

Get your spouse, family and friends on board. Explain how important this is to you and create a family/friends group to encourage and support for everyone’s projects currently in progress. Everyone can use encouragement from time to time. Discuss it with them, make sure activities are planned and understood that during that time you/they are not to be disturbed. You can create a Facebook Group, Google Hangout, etc. to get together and discuss what you are currently working on and where you are in the process. Once people feel included and see just how much you truly care and how far you have come, they will respect you and may just start asking for advice!

Pets

Distraction:

Animals of any kind need attention and caring for. They always seem to need it when you are hard a work writing.

Overcome:

See if a neighbor or close friend can take care of your animal(s) while you work (That’s if they are really close. I don’t expect you to drive across town for a 30 min to an hour of writing time and then go back to get them, unless you choose to.) If you have someone walk your dog, have it correlate with your writing time. If that is not an option, make sure they have all they need before beginning: food, water, toys, a treat maybe. If your family is around see if they can care for the animals while you get some much needed writing done.

Work/Busy Lifestyle

Distraction:

That dreaded 9 to 5, 7 to 3, 3 to 11, 11 to 7 or anything in-between! I have worked them all as well as a mix working some in the morning and coming back in the evening. Not fun and I lost so much time with my children, but that is another story. Let’s stay on track. 😉 How do you get the time to write while balancing a full/part-time job?

I am way to busy to write. There are just to many things to get done, to many things I am involved in!

Overcome:

Look at how you use your day, record your results for a week and see if there are any spaces you can squeeze in some writing time. During your lunch hour (total me!), the bus or train ride from/to home, the few minutes you have in the morning while you are sipping coffee, or a bit of time right before bed. Find those little moments and use them to your advantage.

 Even if you have a busy lifestyle, I bet there are still minutes scattered around that you can use to get some writing in. Again, observe your schedule for a week and see where you can squeeze in some writing time. During work breaks, during kids extra-curricular activities, etc. You can always find a bit of time if you just look.

 

Dating (Online of Off)

Distraction:

You’ve just met this awesome person online or off that you want to get to know better. (I have to say I have never done the online thing and prefer to meet people face to face, but that’s coming from someone who married her high school sweetheart, so you could just ignore that. 🙂 )

Overcome:

If this person respects you in your writing endeavors, they will honor your time to write as well by not interrupting you. If you really feel like this person is special, have them be an accountability partner. Someone who encourages you and keeps you accountable to your goals.

Household Chores/Maintenance

Distraction:

The house is a mess. The laundry needs to get done and the garage needs to to be cleaned out.

Overcome:

The best way to do this is if you have kids, give them some of the chores. Ones you feel they could do without hinderance or harming themselves and plan out the rest on days you have more time. Start picking up before bed so that you won’t have to do it in the morning and have the kids clean up after themselves. (A chore in itself, I know. I’m still working on my own kids with this one.) That goes for your significant other as well. The less you have to worry about the more you can concentrate on what you love, writing… or time with said family.

Too Tired

Distraction:

There are so many things going on, I am just too tired to work on this.

Overcome:

Well, yes, writing can add to your list of items to do, but this is where you get to use your imagination, ideas and inspirations to create something awesome.

 Eat something with high energy (remember to stay healthy, you don’t want to crash), drink plenty of water, sit in your favorite spot and type one word, then another and another. Soon, you will have a paragraph and then a page, then a chapter! And you said you were too tired! This is were sheer determination comes into play. If you have a positive/negative reward system in place, keep that positive reward in your mind as you write. You don’t want to disappoint your fans, or yourself for that matter.

Continuing Education/Internet

Distraction:

This one comes to bite me on a nearly daily basis. I find myself thinking, “I could always know more about this topic or that topic and spend hours researching, reading and taking notes on things I would probably be able to write my own book for now that I have research it so much. Although my brain tells me, “You could always have another copy” or “You may learn something new from this one.”

 Trying to find that last piece of information, surfing social media, or just looking at news. The internet is full of distractions.

  Overcome:

To overcome this, I believe it is best to have a schedule in place. Choose a day or set a time limit for research and only spend that day or time on it. Once that timer goes off, save your spot and move forward. You don’t want to do what I have done for the last few days (without realizing) that I have spent all that time researching and learning without actually putting it to any good use and writing.

There are plenty of apps and programs that will lock access to the net for a time you specify so that it is not a distraction. Some, if not most, will work on computers as well as devices. Again, you could schedule time or use it as a reward. Create a list of rewards and choose one for the session you complete.

Obsessing Over Routine

Distraction:

You have a routine that is precisely planned to the day, hour or even minute and nothing is going to veer you from your course.

Overcome:

Yes, I did just suggest a schedule and with that comes routine, but lets not take that so far as to forget everything else. Stick to it as much as you can. You are not a robot programmed to perform exactly on cue. You must live and enjoy life to be an excellent writer/author. Where do you think all that inspiration comes from? Living! Create a routine, but don’t feel like you have lost everything if you take a day to relax that wasn’t planned or something comes up that was a surprise. Your career will still be here when you return and when you do, you will be there ten fold!

Trying to Find the Quick Fixes

Distraction:

Trying to find a faster or easier way of doing things. Faster writing, easier planning, quicker outcome but still quality.

Overcome:

The phrase, “Slow and steady wins the race” comes to mind here. Although, there may be some ways to make things seem quicker or easier, you may find that your story is lacking the quality it once had because of it. Or what you thought was quicker or easier for one person is definitely not for you. Find what works for you and stick with it. This may take time, but you will benefit in the long run. Once you have structure and systems in place things will naturally flow faster and become easier.

Researching Yourself/News/Internet

Distraction:

I have not personally had this distraction, but I guess it could be if you wanted to look up every last bit of information about yourself that is floating around on the net. (Seriously, I didn’t mean to freak you out about that if you haven’t thought about it before.)

 Now, I don’t understand how this could be possible because I avoid news like the plague. Too much sadness and politics for me so I just don’t watch it or look at it. Of course I can’t avoid it all, but it is just not something I am interested in. I could see how it could interest others with different tastes.

Overcome:

Stop looking! No, but seriously. If you are that concerned I can only guess that you have something that you want to hide. If it is necessary, lock your internet while you write and you can resume your self stalking after.

 If you must obsess over the latest news, use it to your advantage. Creatively use it within your story line. Someone seeing that article in the news or reading in the paper. Maybe it relates to your protagonists career and it could put a damper on their latest project. Use it as research or limit the time you take to read and discuss it.

Internet Celebrities (Animal or Human)

Distraction:

That cute angry cat is at it again. You must see the latest picture, meme, item of the animal sensation or the latest gossip on your favorite celebrity.

Overcome:

I don’t have any problem with this, but I know people who follow them religiously. My thoughts would be to schedule your viewing session in before you write. (You never know where inspiration could hit, you may get an idea from viewing them. Just don’t use that as an excuse. That is not research unless you actually use the information!) Otherwise, use that as a reward for completing your writing goals. What better reward than something you truly love to follow.

Waiting for Inspiration/Not Knowing What to Write

Distraction:

You are at a certain point in your story and you are running flat. Your brain just cannot think of anything else interesting to say.

Ahh! I have no idea what to write! My mind is completely blank! HELP!

Overcome:

Keep a list of prompts either on paper, computer, or Pinterest that you could possibly use for the story you are currently writing. I keep a board specifically for that and as I gather notes, ideas, and other useful information I will list the prompts that may come in handy to use later as needed. You never know when you could use a good plot twist, creative dialogue, or picture to inspire the words to flow!

 Again, this is where real research comes in handy. Save those that you can use for inspiration somewhere. Any app or program you are comfortable using and refer to them when you need inspiration. During one of your research binges, look up ideas and prompts that might be helpful.

Social Media

Distraction:

Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Google+, Pinterest: There are so many social media outlets these days and they can all be a distraction to your writing.

Overcome:

One way to combat this is to turn off all notifications on all devices. I did this a few months back and I could not be happier with my results. I spend a little bit of time in the evenings checking the ones I’m most interested in. You could also schedule a time period to look at them and then pry yourself away when your time limit is up. You could also, during a quick scan, save the articles you want to look at and come back to them when you have more time. Facebook does this very well.

Netflix

Distraction:

They finally added the new season of my favorite show! There are so many shows to choose from! This show is my research for my next book!

Overcome:

Ok, I can see how this would be a distraction. I have binge watched plenty of shows on Netflix. If you are seriously using this as a research tool, then you better have paper and pen or tablet/iPad to be recording your notes for your next project. Otherwise, you need to do something to regulate your viewing habits. This may seem extreme, but if it is possible, you could set parental controls and have your spouse enter a password you won’t know. You would have to go through them to use the app. I know I have said this about many of these, but the more rewards you can choose from the better, right? Use it as a reward for writing for a certain period or number of words.

Schedule a time to use it and get off as soon as that time is up and if all else fails, uninstall it! You could be hindering your writing career if you cannot get your habit under control.

Checking Sales (Business)

Distraction:

You finally got that first, second, third book published and you are dying to see how sales are. Have they skyrocketed? Have they plummeted? Has it moved at all?

Overcome:

First, concentrate on providing awesome stories and content to your readers. Your sales will follow (with well planned and executed marketing). That one book is going to lead the way to your fans wanting more, so do them a favor and begin your next story for them to enjoy.

Second, don’t set any notifications (email, app, etc) to notify you of a sale. You don’t need the pressure to look as you continue your writing journey.

Last, schedule or use as a reward at the end of you writing session to see how well your sales are doing. If your sales are going up, that is a great motivator and you are well on your way to creating more fantastic stories to go along with the one(s) you currently have published.

Plotting Future Novel

Distraction:

You start writing and another idea for a book/article comes to mind. You open another document and set to work plotting that one, then another idea comes and you open yet another document.

Overcome:

It is awesome that you are coming up with new material as you write, but going from one to another to another is not going to get your writing career to the success you want or deserve. Write those ideas in a spiral, a notes app on your device where you can keep all your new ideas and then get back to work on your current project. Not much to this one, but keep in mind that it’s hard to juggle four, five, or six projects when you could already be done with one and moving on to the next.

Wanting to Write on Paper

Distraction:

You are so tired of looking at this stupid screen and you want to use pen on paper.

Overcome:

Go ahead and use paper and pen if you want, just know that you will have to eventually type it all into a document anyway if you want to publish it. One other thing you can do is, invest in a good stylus and note app that allows you to write in your own hand. I have an iPad Pro and an Apple Pencil. I downloaded Upad 3 and use them to write notes long hand to save for future reference. (Check out a recent post on how I use my Upad 3 app here.)

Snacking

Distraction:

I don’t know what it is when you sit in that chair, it’s like your body is working against you. I am always looking for snacks that are small and in pieces to have while I work. My go to right now: Bunch a Crunch. I know, it’s not healthy, but I’m a chocolate lover so… yeah.

Overcome:

If you can afford to (and I would love to do this) put a cabinet or mini-fridge in your office and stock it with healthy snacks and drinks so you only have to roll over and grab what you want, no need to even get out of your chair. Let’s try not to over do it though. If that is not an option, gather the things you will need to satisfy you before you start so that you don’t feel like you are getting up every ten minutes to hunt for a snack. Try for something healthy to keep your energy up. Raisins are my go to when I have them. See, I can be healthier than Bunch a Crunch! 🙂

Health

Distraction:

All I do is sit at this computer all day. I’m worried that my health is declining. Writers/authors aren’t very active while writing, you know.

Overcome:

Well, you could schedule a time to exercise, get a desk that requires you to stand while working or even invest in one that is attached to a treadmill so you can walk while you work. (If you are handy with tools, you could build one onto an existing treadmill!) I would love one of those since walking is what I like to do for exercise!

Phone

Distraction:

That darn contraption was created as a distraction! Phone calls, notifications, email… it’s a writers/authors nightmare!

Overcome:

Put that thing on silent or somewhere out of earshot. Even better, do both! I tend to tell myself that it has to charge and will put it on our charging stand in another room so I can’t hear any notifications (since I turned them off anyway) or calls and won’t be distracted by it.

 

Windows

Distraction:

Well, looking out the windows on a nice day could invoke feelings of enjoying the hot summer days outside on the patio with a refreshing drink.

Overcome:

Hmm, if you can get any work done while being out there, then by all means… enjoy! If not, well then you will have to close yourself in a dark room with a light and hope for the best. Seeing the outdoors should encourage you to continue on, once you get things going and systems become familiar, you will have plenty of time to enjoy the outdoors while you write.

What writing distractions do you have and how do you overcome them? Did I miss any that should be added? Please comment below! I would love to hear your story!!

My Favorite Writing Quotes

Every writer has that one favorite quote they come back to in times of need. Whether they are having an off day, they have no motivation, or want an encouraging word from someone who has been there. There are so many who have come before and many that have provided encouraging words and phrases (even if they didn’t realize it at the time) to help those who come after (or alongside them).

Here are some of my favorites: 

Authors are of a unique breed. Find new ways to create familiarity in the things that are new as well as create a sense of newness for things that are familiar as you write. 

Even the smallest shift in perspective can bring about the greatest healing. ~ Joshua Kai

Healing can come from the smallest shift. You never know when it will hit you, but don’t worry, it will!

Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place. ~ summersaldana.com

I love anything that talks about your journey. Travel the path and become what you were meant to be!

Strength doesn’t come from what you can to. It comes form overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t ~ 2BY10.com

Do the things that you think you can’t and see what you can really do! You will realize there really is nothing you can’t do. 

I think writers are too worried that it has all been said before, but not by YOU! ~ Asha Dornfest

Write the story from you and people will love it because it was you who wrote it. 

Use whatever you can to make a good story great. Even things from personal experience. You never know, books may hide an authors deepest secrets in the form of a journey, experience, or thought. Don’t judge! Author’s are providing a unique story for your entertainment. 

Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart ~ William Wordsworth

Heart is where most of your thoughts and ideas come from, right. You write from your heart, use it well. 

Writers see the world differently. Every voice we hear, every face we see, every hand we touch could become story fabric. ~ Buffy Andrews

Writers use everything and anything at their disposal. We are a unique type. 

A good story makes you want to live in the story. A great book gives you no choice. ~ Author Unknown

Don’t give your readers a choice to live the story. Create a story that will pull them in. 

A writer is working when looking out the window ~ Author Unknown

There is nothing a writer can not use, so use everything!

This last one is my all time favorite: 

What better way to encourage children than with bravery and heroic courage…

What is your favorite Writing Quote or Phrase? Comment to encourage others!

What Inspires Me to Write…

One of the questions most, if not all authors get is, “What inspires you to write or What is your inspiration for writing?”

I would assume that question has a multitude of answers and I am no exception. So without further ado, here are my reasons as to my inspiration for writing.

In the words of my brother -in -law, “Famary” is very important to me and is one of my inspirations for writing. Thank you Jerome! My children encourage me with nearly every word. They are hilarious, loving, and goof-balls. I love every minute with them. So why are they an inspiration? They are my life’s blood. Without them I would be nothing. Looking at them every day reminds me why I write and encourages me to become better. Not only is it a way to show my children dedication, determination, courage, passion, and a love for what I do. That is exactly why I write, I love to do it.

 

Through my work and what I do, I can inspire others to do the same or even something different. It doesn’t matter if you like to write, you can do anything. I should know. As a young girl I was terrified to talk to people or put myself out there in any fashion. I remember one time long ago, I was about 10 at the time. My family and I were eating at McDonalds and I wanted more catsup for my fries. This was before they put the pumps in to serve yourself, so I was forced to go to the counter and ask for the packets. I was so terrified I didn’t even want to ask for something that they so readily give to their customers. Since then I have achieved a better handle over my fright and have accomplished so much. I hope that my words whether in my blog, books, or anything else encourage others to chase their dreams and goals.

Reading and writing have been a passion of mine since I was a young girl. It was a way to escape everyday life with five sisters and read about the things I loved. Eventually that love turned into a passion to write what I wanted to read. There is nothing more satisfying that writing a great story for others to enjoy.

The journey is one of the most gratifying things to come from writing. Not only the journey of your characters as they traverse the paths and obstacles you place in front of them, but also your journey as a writer. The experience of becoming an author and writer is one I wouldn’t change for the world. There may be some down days, but the good days massively out way them. I could not be happier to spend my days on the journey I have chosen.

What better way to be inspired is by your readers. Saying ‘Thank You’ to your readers will create a desire to continue providing awesome content, stories, and more. Your readers will be there for you and are what drives your business to the next story, level, course, or post. Keep them in mind as you continue your journey. 

 

What Inspires You…?

What inspires you to keep going with your journey? Your dreams? And to accomplish your goals?

April Fools Day ~ Funny Pranks/Jokes

Funniest Prank or Joke 

In loo of April Fools Day, I have decided to share a prank that my husband performed on his brother while he was staying with us. 

My husband has a sense of humor and luckily so do his brothers. My life is never boring with them around. To keep the identity of them safe, I will refer to them as brother and husband. 

Late one night, Brother came home late from work and headed for the shower. I was already in bed, almost asleep when my husband got up and headed out of the room. The next thing I hear is a scream coming from ‘Brother’ and a great amount of laughing. 

You see, as a Christmas present one year, my husband gave me a long dark green velvet cap with a hood. He went into our hall closet, put it on and as brother was walking back down the hall to go to the guest room husband walked out of the closet speaking as the grim reaper. Poor brother jumped so far he almost fell over the banister and down the stairs. 

Luckily, brother has a sense of humor like my husband and they had a good laugh before heading to bed for the night. 

What is a good prank that was played on you or you played on someone? Share your story for April Fools Day!